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Let's
look at a couple of examples that demonstrate this. Say you
have a small child, say four to five years old, who leaves
their room in a mess, you want them to learn to tidy up the
room. Most people would say to the child "Don't leave
that room in a mess." Now let's look at what the translator
has to translate into a picture, feeling or emotion so the
subconscious can understand it. Don't is not translatable,
where as "leave that room in a mess", makes a nice
picture instruction.
So the child obediently carries
out the instruction and leaves the room in a mess. Now he
can't understand why you are so upset. Your own subconscious
mind is like this child, it has a limited understanding
of speech. Yes it will be conditioned to eventually understand
that "don't", means think twice about this statement
or you could get a good smack on the bum. But it is much better
to understand how to communicate clearly what you want. This
can prevent a lot of unnecessary suffering and the learning
curve will be faster. For instance, with the child you say
what you want, "Leave the room tidy". This creates
a nice clear picture of what you want doesn't it?
Negative statements like don't,
won't, can't and not are not making clear pictures of what
you want. Say Jim wants to stop smoking, so he goes around
saying "I am not going to smoke". Now his consious
mind knows what he means, but this statement creates a clear
picture of smoking in the subconscious.
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