FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE


Not a source of constant suffering. Realize we all have the power to control our memories, they are not meant to be a source of constant suffering but a resource of information to avoid past dangers, mistakes and as a database of information to help us problem solve.

If you constantly relive past traumas, you are wasting enormous amounts of your personal energy and resources. You are focusing and concentrating on what cannot be changed, the past! Focus your resources and energy on to what you want now, let the past go, forgive and let go. If you do this you become a more powerful and happy person, simply because you're not constantly wasting your energy and resource reliving the event.

By doing this you are freeing up these wasted resources, and allowing your body to recover from the damaging effects of living in trauma. The past no longer exists only your personal memory of it, weighted with your recorded emotional and sensory bias, does, and then only when you decide to press the replay button!

Monitor yourself and when you notice yourself reliving an event that is traumatic or unpleasant, take control and say "I now let this memory go, I will now focus my personal power on to what I want now!". Then think of the positive things that you are aiming for in life, and picture them as if they are happening for you right now! By doing this you are instructing the subconscious to focus your resources onto what you can change...THE PRESENT!

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